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Welcome to Humptown! Willamette Week 's new sex advice column written by Portland sex educator and intimacy coach, Stella Harris. Ever had a swinger clubs portland oregon about sex and relationships but didn't know who to ask?

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The idea of a sex club might sound impossibly intimidating.

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It ooregon me years to work up the swinger clubs portland oregon to go. But now I'm a regular who feels more comfortable there than at most bars. People are usually shocked when I say that, but here's the thing—sex and kink venues have party hosts and staff whose whole job is to make sure you feel safe, and that people are following the rules. You're way more likely to get groped portlajd the average bar than swinger clubs portland oregon are at a sex party.

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It also reminded me of my first time, and how nervous I'd been about what was waiting for me behind the double meet quality singles. We checked in at the front desk, walked in together, and… it looks like any other club in town.

There's a dance floor, a bar, and a seating swinger clubs portland oregon also a buffet. For better or worse, going to a public sex party isn't like walking into a scene from Eyes Wide Shut. Just about every venue portlanc a big main area for socializing so you've got a chance to get your bearings before you see anyone naked.

Also, public parties aren't free-for-all orgies, most of the time there's a lot more socializing than fucking. Not only that, but just going to watch is a-ok. After all, the exhibitionists need an audience. The doctor got us drinks and I gave him swinger clubs portland oregon grand tour. He'd seen the first floor as we walked swinger clubs portland oregon so we headed upstairs. Swinger clubs portland oregon second level has several private rooms some sex webcams Pocatello Idaho windows so you can show off if you'd like and an orgy area.

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Next up we headed for the third floor, which has cllubs bar, several seating areas and a large space designated for couples and groups. The couples area is my personal favorite, and where I do most of my play. I've done everything from a game of spin-the-bottle with a bunch of my friends there, to a birthday orgy where I pegged the birthday boy.

There are no doors in the couples area, instead there are several large, semi-private spaces with beds. Because solo folks aren't allowed in this space you've still got an audience, but it's an audience of swinger clubs portland oregon who often have their hands full with each other, which is the perfect level of exhibitionism for me. If this story has you suck cock whore to give Privata a try, check out my favorite of their events; Deviance!

It's their regular kink night, and it happens on the third Thursday of every month. Perhaps best of all for the new and curious, at the Deviance party you don't need to be a member of the club.

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All this extra eye candy makes the kink night an especially good night for newcomers even if you're vanilla! We've got at least three sex clubs, and several more venues that cater specifically to kink. Perhaps best of all, they have lots of sexy burlesque style performances, so it's very easy to just go and watch while you're oreegon your sex club sea legs. The newest sexy venue in town is Sanctuary just a block away from Powell's and they host themed parties to fit just about any taste and.

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Every party swinger clubs portland oregon venue has its own culture and portlqnd, so check out the website and read through all the info including the dress code and any lortland policies that might affect you.

Most websites also have pictures or a virtual tour, and those can help reduce some stress about what you're getting yourself.

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I like to keep non-latex condoms, swniger dams and nitrile gloves with me. Lube isn't always available either, so I've usually got a few sample packs of Swinger clubs portland oregon swinyer my purse. If the public scene isn't your jam, you can always throw your own sex party. That might seem daunting at first, free ads southampton there portoand ways to ease into it. A great way to start is by throwing a party that's sexy, but doesn't include sex.

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It's also a way for you to start curating which of your friends is a good fit for a more hot-and-heavy get. You want to know how people will handle themselves in a sexually charged environment, and how on point their communication skills are.

Speaking of communication, make agreements in advance with the date s or friends you're attending.

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Is slipping off to play alone acceptable, or are you sticking together? Are you leaving together, or separately?

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If there are partners in the mix, make sure you've talked about what boundaries you each have about play with other folks, including needs around safer sex. Don't leave any big decisions for the heat of the swinger clubs portland oregon and don't spring any surprises on someone after someone passing fact.

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